My Family, My Journey: Saturday Night at Our House

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Saturday Night at Our House

A little light reading (!)...

Nitter Kebbeh and Berbere

Yetakelt W'et

and Mesir Wat. YUM!

Follow the links if you want the recipes for these delicious dishes!

Our first SNOW of the season!

And now our favorite Christmas movie.

Ah, life is good...and about to get even better :)

10 comments:

Tam and Kai - NYC said...: a perfect cozy-combo for the blizzard of '09! and next year...sled riding!!!! yes :); Saturday, December 19, 2009
Lisa said...: Sounds like the perfect evening to me! Makes me hungry just looking at those pictures. I made the mesir wat for a holiday party (yes, I made it twice in one week) and I was asked by at least 9 people for the recipe :); Saturday, December 19, 2009
Samantha said...: these are great pictures, I love them :); Sunday, December 20, 2009
The Busters said...: Wow, the food looks delish!! I am super impressed. I see lots of snowmen in your future. :); Sunday, December 20, 2009
kn said...: I don't know if i've commented before, but we don't live too far away (hudson valley) and i wanted to thank you for the food links! We are hoping to bring home a son or daughter who is 3-5 years old next year and i want to start learning to cook some everyday ethiopian foods so that our 7 year old can start getting used to them.

This weekend is the perfect weekend for that!

Love your blog and thanks for the elf movie links too!; Sunday, December 20, 2009
Anonymous said...: I very rarely ever post! But I have to say you are the most POSITIVE person I have ever come across!! I'm completely addicted to your blog in great hopes to see a REFERRAL soon! You encourage everyone, and you have waited the longest! This wait will pay off for you big time. God has 2 special kids waiting to come home to you both! I hope you have the best Christmas ever! I know next year will be for sure!!! I just wanted to let you know people you have never met, nor will you ever meet are inspired by your kind and caring heart!!!!
Have A Great Sunday!!!

Sherrie*; Sunday, December 20, 2009
Rebecca said...: i'm just going to invite myself over. you just have the coziest place in the world. with your yummy food, books, and handcrafted knits ... and YOU! best of all you, my dearest Heidi!

xoxoxoxo; Sunday, December 20, 2009
Mika K. Reynolds said...: Wow! Saturday night at your house looks like heaven. Seriously. You cross my mind every single day. Can't wait for your referral to come! Soon, soon.
PS. I love that you are a fellow Mary Oliver fan. Her words are magic.; Monday, December 21, 2009
Gail said...: Merry Christmas, Heidi.

Hoping pictures your "gifts" arrive this week!; Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Maribeth said...: Yummm! Looks so good. Hoping and praying to hear some great news very soon. I'm feeling goodness for you.; Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Timeline

*PAPER CHASE/5.5 MNTHS*
6-27-08: Register for orientation with local agency
7-16-08: Attend orientation with local agency
8-19-08: Decide to adopt from Ethiopia through Gladney. Best decisions ever!
8-28-08: Attend orientation with Gladney
8-28-08: 1st Home Study interview
9-25-08: Home study interviews completed & all Gladney paper work submitted
9-30-08: CIS fingerprints
10-2-08: FBI clearance
11-12-08: Home Study report completed
11-25-08: Gladney approval
12-4-08: CIS approval
*WAIT FOR REFERRAL/13 MNTHS*
12-11-08: Wait list!!!!!!!
4-21-09: Increased our age preference hoping to speed things up (HA!)
8-29-09: Heidi's medicals updated
9-15-09: Mark's medicals updated
9-20-09: Travel Immunizatons
11-10-09: Sent in request for CIS fingerprint updates
11-11-09: Gladney calls to review our age preference
11-17-09: Gladney calls again and tells us about twin boys who *might* become available. We agree to increasing our age preference in order to pursue these boys.
11-21-09: Receive CIS fingerprint appointment
12-16-09: Have CIS fingerprints taken
1-4-10: Referral!!!!!!! 28 month old twin boys!!!!!
*WAIT TO PASS COURT/4 MNTHS*
1-19-10: Start home study update
2-18-10: CIS fingerprints cleared
3-4-10: Home study update completed/sent CIS extension request
3-30-10: File submitted to courts!
3-31-10: Received court date!
4-22-10: Received CIS approval extension
4-23-10: 1st court date
4-28-10: 2nd court date
5-05-10: 3rd court date
05-06-10: 4th and final court date! We're a family!
5-12-10: Receive travel dates!
5-18-10: Travel!
6-1-10: Home as a family of SEVEN (four humans, three puppy dogs!)

Fun Facts About Ethiopia

•Ethiopia has been around for a very long time. The country's Rift Valley is known as the cradle of humanity - fossils of the oldest known upright hominid (4-million years old) were found here in 2005, surpassing the famous 3.5-million-year-old 'Lucy', which was discovered in the same region back in 1974.

•A thousand years before Christ, the Queen of Sheba, we are told, traveled to Jerusalem where she met King Solomon, married him, and had a son, Menelik. When Menelik reached maturity, it is said he left Jerusalem and took with him the Ark of the Covenant, containing the original 10 commandments, back to Ethiopia. The Ethiopian Christian Orthodox Church says it still has the ark in its possession. No one else makes such a claim...

•Ethiopia's official religion is the 1700 year old Ethiopian Christian Orthodox Church. The Jews of Ethiopia, Beta Israel, are said to have been there for 3000 years. And its Muslim adherents have practiced Islam for 1300 years. Ethiopia is split religiously, with official statistics of 35% to 40% Ethiopian Orthodox primarily in the north, and 45% to 50% Muslim, primarily in the South.

•Ethiopia is the only country in Africa never to be under colonial rule, other than a brief occupation by Italy during WWII. You can visit many restaurants in Ethiopia today due to the influence of Italy during the occupation.

•Traditional Ethiopian food consists of various vegetable or meat dishes, usually a wat or thick stew, served atop injera, which is a large crepe-like sourdough flatbread made from fermented teff flour. One does not eat with utensils, but instead uses a piece of the injera (always with the right hand) to scoop up the sauces.

•The Ethiopian calendar is very similar to the Egyptian Coptic calendar – each have 13 months, 12 with 30 days each and the 13th month at the end of the year with 5 or 6 days, depending on whether it is a leap year. The year starts on September 11th (12th in a leap year). The Ethiopian calendar is 7 years behind the Gregorian calendar, so Ethiopia recently celebrated their millennium on September 12, 2007.

•Coffee can be traced back to the 9th Century where it is believed a shepherd discovered coffee beans in the highlands of Ethiopia, namely the Kaffa region. The Ethiopian people are very proud of their coffee and they show this in their well known coffee ceremonies. The Coffee Ceremony is a very important part of socializing in Ethiopia and to be invited to a coffee ceremony is always considered a sign of respect and friendship.

•There are multiple tribes with different subcultures and over 80 languages in Ethiopia. The Amharic language is a Semitic language spoken in North Central Ethiopia and is the official working language for Ethiopia.

•Family in Ethiopia includes immediate and extended relatives, neighbors, and friends. Faith and family are the foundation of the Ethiopian culture. Ethiopians are very respectful and loving. The elderly are considered very knowledgeable and as a very important part of the family structure. Children are usually raised in a large community that includes extended family and neighbors, and siblings are expected to help take care of each other.